Mr. Jude Idada shares his encounter at a public medical facility.
Here's what he said:
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I went there.
This medical laboratory.
One run by the government.
One of the tall laboratory scientists was dazzling to look at and conservatively dressed.
She routinely came out and chatted with us all as she coordinated the sample taking.
A young man sitting two seats away from me.
Who had authority in his mien and a certain material comfort in his dressing spoke to her to everyone's hearing.
"Madam, good morning. Has any one told you that you are a very beautiful woman?"
She turned to him as we all listened in.
"No o. This is a work place. No body talks of beauty. It is hard work we compliment here."
"In that case, you are a very beautiful and hardworking woman."
"Thank you for your comment about my hardworking nature. We are trying to show you people that government establishments can be as efficient as private companies, even though the staff are paid little because you pay little."
"That is not good madam, you deserve to make money. In fact I am imagining how you will look if someone spends good money on you."
"Please o. I don't want anyone to spend money on me. I want to spend money on myself. That is why I want to be paid more for the work I do here, if you people agree to pay more for government services."
People laughed and cracked jokes at her expense.
And the man stayed on her with zero focus, a sly smile on his face.
He started speaking again as people convoked a jocular bedlam.
"Madam, what if I take you to dinner and show you how I can spend money on you while making you earn the money?"
She titled her gaze from the folks she had been in a friendly banter and settled it on him.
"Dinner?"
"Yes. Any restaurant of your choice any where in Lagos."
She lifted her hand up, fingers spread out on which there was a wedding band and a studded engagement ring.
"I hope that you can see that I am a married woman."
"Yes. But it makes no difference."
"It makes no difference to take a married woman out for dinner?"
"Yes. You will go home after dinner. So it has no effect on your marriage."
"And what will I tell my husband that I am going to?:
"You are an adult, I expect that you have known him long enough to know what to tell him and what not to tell him."
Everyone fell silent and turned to him.
He was sitting at the edge of his seat.
Confidence oozing out.
She was staring down at him.
"And if I know that he will not permit me to go out to dinner with you?"
"Then if I were you, I will either ask for forgiveness after I have gone out for dinner with me or I will tell him that something came up at work that demands me staying late."
"Oh no o! I cannot lie to my husband."
"In that case you should ask for forgiveness."
She placed her arms across her chest and turned to him fully.
"What is this thing you want to tell me about that you need dinner to tell me?"
"It is a life changing offer I want to make to you and I believe you deserve to hear it over good food and drinks."
"That is expensive to spend money on just because of an offer."
"It is befitting the occasion."
"If you have so much money why are you at a public hospital?"
"I will tell you why if you come to dinner with me."
She shifted her balance from one leg to the other and held his gaze.
"So if I don't come for this dinner I will not hear this offer from you?"
"Exactly."
"What if I come with my husband for this dinner?"
"Then I will not make the offer and he willl have to pay for the dinner."
"Hmmmm."
People started giving her unsolicited advice.
Most of it funny and eliciting laughter.
She kept looking at him.
He kept looking at her.
Finally she said after sighing and uncrossing her arms.
"I cannot go for dinner with you if I cannot come with my husband."
"Okay."
"But if you give me your number, I will call you when I think about it and let you know if I can do lunch..."
Lagos
Jude Idada
February 22, 2025
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#gisthub
Here's what he said:
---
I went there.
This medical laboratory.
One run by the government.
One of the tall laboratory scientists was dazzling to look at and conservatively dressed.
She routinely came out and chatted with us all as she coordinated the sample taking.
A young man sitting two seats away from me.
Who had authority in his mien and a certain material comfort in his dressing spoke to her to everyone's hearing.
"Madam, good morning. Has any one told you that you are a very beautiful woman?"
She turned to him as we all listened in.
"No o. This is a work place. No body talks of beauty. It is hard work we compliment here."
"In that case, you are a very beautiful and hardworking woman."
"Thank you for your comment about my hardworking nature. We are trying to show you people that government establishments can be as efficient as private companies, even though the staff are paid little because you pay little."
"That is not good madam, you deserve to make money. In fact I am imagining how you will look if someone spends good money on you."
"Please o. I don't want anyone to spend money on me. I want to spend money on myself. That is why I want to be paid more for the work I do here, if you people agree to pay more for government services."
People laughed and cracked jokes at her expense.
And the man stayed on her with zero focus, a sly smile on his face.
He started speaking again as people convoked a jocular bedlam.
"Madam, what if I take you to dinner and show you how I can spend money on you while making you earn the money?"
She titled her gaze from the folks she had been in a friendly banter and settled it on him.
"Dinner?"
"Yes. Any restaurant of your choice any where in Lagos."
She lifted her hand up, fingers spread out on which there was a wedding band and a studded engagement ring.
"I hope that you can see that I am a married woman."
"Yes. But it makes no difference."
"It makes no difference to take a married woman out for dinner?"
"Yes. You will go home after dinner. So it has no effect on your marriage."
"And what will I tell my husband that I am going to?:
"You are an adult, I expect that you have known him long enough to know what to tell him and what not to tell him."
Everyone fell silent and turned to him.
He was sitting at the edge of his seat.
Confidence oozing out.
She was staring down at him.
"And if I know that he will not permit me to go out to dinner with you?"
"Then if I were you, I will either ask for forgiveness after I have gone out for dinner with me or I will tell him that something came up at work that demands me staying late."
"Oh no o! I cannot lie to my husband."
"In that case you should ask for forgiveness."
She placed her arms across her chest and turned to him fully.
"What is this thing you want to tell me about that you need dinner to tell me?"
"It is a life changing offer I want to make to you and I believe you deserve to hear it over good food and drinks."
"That is expensive to spend money on just because of an offer."
"It is befitting the occasion."
"If you have so much money why are you at a public hospital?"
"I will tell you why if you come to dinner with me."
She shifted her balance from one leg to the other and held his gaze.
"So if I don't come for this dinner I will not hear this offer from you?"
"Exactly."
"What if I come with my husband for this dinner?"
"Then I will not make the offer and he willl have to pay for the dinner."
"Hmmmm."
People started giving her unsolicited advice.
Most of it funny and eliciting laughter.
She kept looking at him.
He kept looking at her.
Finally she said after sighing and uncrossing her arms.
"I cannot go for dinner with you if I cannot come with my husband."
"Okay."
"But if you give me your number, I will call you when I think about it and let you know if I can do lunch..."
Lagos
Jude Idada
February 22, 2025
---
#gisthub
Mr. Jude Idada shares his encounter at a public medical facility.
Here's what he said:
---
I went there.
This medical laboratory.
One run by the government.
One of the tall laboratory scientists was dazzling to look at and conservatively dressed.
She routinely came out and chatted with us all as she coordinated the sample taking.
A young man sitting two seats away from me.
Who had authority in his mien and a certain material comfort in his dressing spoke to her to everyone's hearing.
"Madam, good morning. Has any one told you that you are a very beautiful woman?"
She turned to him as we all listened in.
"No o. This is a work place. No body talks of beauty. It is hard work we compliment here."
"In that case, you are a very beautiful and hardworking woman."
"Thank you for your comment about my hardworking nature. We are trying to show you people that government establishments can be as efficient as private companies, even though the staff are paid little because you pay little."
"That is not good madam, you deserve to make money. In fact I am imagining how you will look if someone spends good money on you."
"Please o. I don't want anyone to spend money on me. I want to spend money on myself. That is why I want to be paid more for the work I do here, if you people agree to pay more for government services."
People laughed and cracked jokes at her expense.
And the man stayed on her with zero focus, a sly smile on his face.
He started speaking again as people convoked a jocular bedlam.
"Madam, what if I take you to dinner and show you how I can spend money on you while making you earn the money?"
She titled her gaze from the folks she had been in a friendly banter and settled it on him.
"Dinner?"
"Yes. Any restaurant of your choice any where in Lagos."
She lifted her hand up, fingers spread out on which there was a wedding band and a studded engagement ring.
"I hope that you can see that I am a married woman."
"Yes. But it makes no difference."
"It makes no difference to take a married woman out for dinner?"
"Yes. You will go home after dinner. So it has no effect on your marriage."
"And what will I tell my husband that I am going to?:
"You are an adult, I expect that you have known him long enough to know what to tell him and what not to tell him."
Everyone fell silent and turned to him.
He was sitting at the edge of his seat.
Confidence oozing out.
She was staring down at him.
"And if I know that he will not permit me to go out to dinner with you?"
"Then if I were you, I will either ask for forgiveness after I have gone out for dinner with me or I will tell him that something came up at work that demands me staying late."
"Oh no o! I cannot lie to my husband."
"In that case you should ask for forgiveness."
She placed her arms across her chest and turned to him fully.
"What is this thing you want to tell me about that you need dinner to tell me?"
"It is a life changing offer I want to make to you and I believe you deserve to hear it over good food and drinks."
"That is expensive to spend money on just because of an offer."
"It is befitting the occasion."
"If you have so much money why are you at a public hospital?"
"I will tell you why if you come to dinner with me."
She shifted her balance from one leg to the other and held his gaze.
"So if I don't come for this dinner I will not hear this offer from you?"
"Exactly."
"What if I come with my husband for this dinner?"
"Then I will not make the offer and he willl have to pay for the dinner."
"Hmmmm."
People started giving her unsolicited advice.
Most of it funny and eliciting laughter.
She kept looking at him.
He kept looking at her.
Finally she said after sighing and uncrossing her arms.
"I cannot go for dinner with you if I cannot come with my husband."
"Okay."
"But if you give me your number, I will call you when I think about it and let you know if I can do lunch..."
Lagos
Jude Idada
February 22, 2025
---
#gisthub
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