RELATIONSHIP TIPS
LOVE DOES NOT GUARANTEE A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP.


No matter how you feel for someone, the person you are committed to ranks first in life, you think married people don’t see better people then the ones they married? You think they don’t feel funny sometimes? You think they don’t catch feelings? They do. But understanding that commitment is greater than feelings is a great arsenal to destroy that impulse. You can fall in love with anyone, but building a relationship takes absolutely more than what attracted you to them.

I have been in a relationship and I have found out that love does not guarantee the success of a relationship, Love cannot help you stick to one person. After all cheating is not always the product of not loving your partner. In fact loving someone does not guarantee not falling in love with any other person. Relationship works out because of our HEAD not our HEART, it works out because of emotional maturity, empathic intelligence and self discipline. You see, time will come when you will see people better than the one you are in a relationship with , in those time love will not help you, self control, emotional intelligence and commitment will help.


It takes more than love. We are too fond of loving when its sweet, we are too fond of loving when love is there , but that can only last for just the first 3-6 months of the relationship. After then you realize that the feelings have dropped, its now you responsibility to make it work, not loves responsibility.

NOTE: NEVER YOU GO IN TO A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT A GOOD REASON.

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