They should understand that there is no money, while they wait for the perfect day, and while they watch us spend on mere acquaintances?

My intention is not to make you guilty or feel bad, but to find a way to begin to prioritize our loved ones.

Family is number one. Is it? Is it for a lot of men?

And we don't need sophisticated research to determine what your priorities are.
What takes your time and money is your priority.
Ever seen a woman who respects everyone else but her husband and immediate family?

Can someone tell me why we prefer to be nice to others at the expense of our families and loved ones.