BEING FAITHFUL IS NOT ENOUGH
Are you faithful to your spouse? Good!
But just because you are not cheating doesn't necessarily mean you are an amazing spouse.
1. Are you emotionally there for your spouse? Do you take time to connect with your spouse or are you faithful but making your spouse feel lonely?
2. Are you a good and present parent? Do you help out in raising the children or have you distanced yourself from parenthood? Do you intentionally participate in the bringing up of the children or are you faithful but making your spouse feel like a single parent?
3. Are you responsible with your finances? Have you brought strain to the family resources? Are you making sound financial choices or are you faithful but sinking your family wealth?
4. Are you satisfying your spouse's sexual needs? Are you great in bed and making your spouse feel good? Are you giving your spouse pleasure or are you faithful but presiding over a sexually boring marriage?
5. Are you supportive? Are you keen on cheering your spouse on in growth? Do you help your spouse achieve their dreams or are you faithful but discouraging or disinterested in your spouse's progress?
6. Are you kind? Do you speak to your spouse well? Do you speak with love and peace or are you mean, domineering and rude? Are your words pleasant or are you faithful but hurtful with your words?
7. Are you passionate about love? Does your spouse see desire in your eyes? Do you look forward to doing things with your spouse or you don't do dates or fun things? Do you make memories with your spouse or are you faithful but in a dead marriage of no activity?
8. Are you spiritually alive? Do you pray with your spouse, lead your spouse closer to God? Does your spouse see God in you? Do you enrich your spouse's walk or are you faithful but a stumbling block?
9. Are you encouraging? When your spouse hits rock bottom do you judge your spouse? Do you put your spouse down or are you faithful but demeaning?
10. Are you truthful? Do you tell your spouse the truth? Do you keep secrets? Are you honest or are you faithful but with a record of lies that hurt?
11. Are you pleasant to look at and desirable? Do you look good and smell good? Do you work on your appearance or are you faithful but smelly, unkempt, don't care in your presentation and distasteful?
12. Are your conversations stimulating? Do your stories your spouse up? Are you fun to talk to or are you faithful but a gossip, immature in reasoning, shallow and uninspiring?
13. Are you a good listener? Do you give your spouse room to talk and share his/her opinion or are you faithful but manipulative, selfish and only want things to go your way?
14. Are you abusive? Do you insult your spouse, do you make your spouse feel attacked, do you throw things at your spouse or hit your spouse? Are you non-violent or are you faithful but abusive?
Sadly, we have reduced the standard of a good spouse to one who doesn't cheat, yet there is so much more to being a good spouse.
Are you really a good spouse?
Are you faithful to your spouse? Good!
But just because you are not cheating doesn't necessarily mean you are an amazing spouse.
1. Are you emotionally there for your spouse? Do you take time to connect with your spouse or are you faithful but making your spouse feel lonely?
2. Are you a good and present parent? Do you help out in raising the children or have you distanced yourself from parenthood? Do you intentionally participate in the bringing up of the children or are you faithful but making your spouse feel like a single parent?
3. Are you responsible with your finances? Have you brought strain to the family resources? Are you making sound financial choices or are you faithful but sinking your family wealth?
4. Are you satisfying your spouse's sexual needs? Are you great in bed and making your spouse feel good? Are you giving your spouse pleasure or are you faithful but presiding over a sexually boring marriage?
5. Are you supportive? Are you keen on cheering your spouse on in growth? Do you help your spouse achieve their dreams or are you faithful but discouraging or disinterested in your spouse's progress?
6. Are you kind? Do you speak to your spouse well? Do you speak with love and peace or are you mean, domineering and rude? Are your words pleasant or are you faithful but hurtful with your words?
7. Are you passionate about love? Does your spouse see desire in your eyes? Do you look forward to doing things with your spouse or you don't do dates or fun things? Do you make memories with your spouse or are you faithful but in a dead marriage of no activity?
8. Are you spiritually alive? Do you pray with your spouse, lead your spouse closer to God? Does your spouse see God in you? Do you enrich your spouse's walk or are you faithful but a stumbling block?
9. Are you encouraging? When your spouse hits rock bottom do you judge your spouse? Do you put your spouse down or are you faithful but demeaning?
10. Are you truthful? Do you tell your spouse the truth? Do you keep secrets? Are you honest or are you faithful but with a record of lies that hurt?
11. Are you pleasant to look at and desirable? Do you look good and smell good? Do you work on your appearance or are you faithful but smelly, unkempt, don't care in your presentation and distasteful?
12. Are your conversations stimulating? Do your stories your spouse up? Are you fun to talk to or are you faithful but a gossip, immature in reasoning, shallow and uninspiring?
13. Are you a good listener? Do you give your spouse room to talk and share his/her opinion or are you faithful but manipulative, selfish and only want things to go your way?
14. Are you abusive? Do you insult your spouse, do you make your spouse feel attacked, do you throw things at your spouse or hit your spouse? Are you non-violent or are you faithful but abusive?
Sadly, we have reduced the standard of a good spouse to one who doesn't cheat, yet there is so much more to being a good spouse.
Are you really a good spouse?
BEING FAITHFUL IS NOT ENOUGH
Are you faithful to your spouse? Good!
But just because you are not cheating doesn't necessarily mean you are an amazing spouse.
1. Are you emotionally there for your spouse? Do you take time to connect with your spouse or are you faithful but making your spouse feel lonely?
2. Are you a good and present parent? Do you help out in raising the children or have you distanced yourself from parenthood? Do you intentionally participate in the bringing up of the children or are you faithful but making your spouse feel like a single parent?
3. Are you responsible with your finances? Have you brought strain to the family resources? Are you making sound financial choices or are you faithful but sinking your family wealth?
4. Are you satisfying your spouse's sexual needs? Are you great in bed and making your spouse feel good? Are you giving your spouse pleasure or are you faithful but presiding over a sexually boring marriage?
5. Are you supportive? Are you keen on cheering your spouse on in growth? Do you help your spouse achieve their dreams or are you faithful but discouraging or disinterested in your spouse's progress?
6. Are you kind? Do you speak to your spouse well? Do you speak with love and peace or are you mean, domineering and rude? Are your words pleasant or are you faithful but hurtful with your words?
7. Are you passionate about love? Does your spouse see desire in your eyes? Do you look forward to doing things with your spouse or you don't do dates or fun things? Do you make memories with your spouse or are you faithful but in a dead marriage of no activity?
8. Are you spiritually alive? Do you pray with your spouse, lead your spouse closer to God? Does your spouse see God in you? Do you enrich your spouse's walk or are you faithful but a stumbling block?
9. Are you encouraging? When your spouse hits rock bottom do you judge your spouse? Do you put your spouse down or are you faithful but demeaning?
10. Are you truthful? Do you tell your spouse the truth? Do you keep secrets? Are you honest or are you faithful but with a record of lies that hurt?
11. Are you pleasant to look at and desirable? Do you look good and smell good? Do you work on your appearance or are you faithful but smelly, unkempt, don't care in your presentation and distasteful?
12. Are your conversations stimulating? Do your stories your spouse up? Are you fun to talk to or are you faithful but a gossip, immature in reasoning, shallow and uninspiring?
13. Are you a good listener? Do you give your spouse room to talk and share his/her opinion or are you faithful but manipulative, selfish and only want things to go your way?
14. Are you abusive? Do you insult your spouse, do you make your spouse feel attacked, do you throw things at your spouse or hit your spouse? Are you non-violent or are you faithful but abusive?
Sadly, we have reduced the standard of a good spouse to one who doesn't cheat, yet there is so much more to being a good spouse.
Are you really a good spouse?
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