SAY NO.......
LEARN to say NO whenever it becomes NECESSARY. YOU NEED TO TURN DOWN SOMETHINGS TO BE ABLE TO GROW.
When you fail to reject some offers, you end up caging yourself.
IF THE YES YOU'VE SAID IS ALREADY AFFECTING NEGATIVELY, ASK THE HOLY HOLY SPIRIT FOR HELP AND GUIDE

SAY NO TODAY AND BE FREE.

SEX

A man can travel for eight hours 'just to have sex with a female friend and yet, not love her.
Sex makes men act as if they are in love.
The eight hours travel sacrifice, gifts bought, hotel paid for and other expenses may seem to be coming from true love but they were all in the sacrifice for sex and nothing more.
The foolish thing is this, majority of women would jump up inside them and conclude that this is art of true love. Sex is not an art of commitment. Men still leave the women they sleep with on bed and start thinking of the next woman to sleep with. The satisfaction that
comes from sex dies in minutes.
It is in the nature of Lions to go miles to hunt. The same with men. A man who can afford the expenses of flying from America to Nigeria for sex would do it as if he would never turn to another woman for sex.
Sex drives men to do what seems like the
impossible and such turns women around and they start acting weird. Sex and love are not in the same page even in dictionary.
People can abandon their gold mines and dig the grave for sex. Most young men do terrible things just to have the resources to keep many girls in their life. You may think they are working hard to live well in the future but they are just living for
fun and that is all. Students are now living
together like husbands and wives, and our
society calls it love. What kind of people do these students become when they leave school?
This is why we have a lot of frustrated graduates than nation building graduates.
Today, a 16 year old girl is already into sex. She wants to wear everything on trend. She is already a prostitute in the sense that any man
that comes her way for relationship must show some signs of money and she would respond to him.
The funny thing is this, almost all those girls that have become sex symbols end up in deep mess. How many of them today is changing the world they are into? What kind of spirit would they do well with in life? They have sold their souls out
to sex. They pride on what they wear and hotels they go to. That is their biggest achievement. The girls they called cowards are setting up economic empires. Their future is already exhausted when they they come to their true senses?

Advice to my beloved brothers and sisters:
For men; never allow your erection today to destroy your future directions, stay positive.
My sisters, all that glitters is not gold, make your future bright and its start today.

*THE POWER OF SELF-BELIEF*

"No one — not her family, nor her friends, not even her husband, thought this was a good idea. Her cookies were soft and chewy — not crispy like store brands — and they needed to be eaten fresh to taste their best."

These were the exact words I read this morning, lying on my forlorn bed. The title of that particular paragraph actually was: NO ONE SUPPORTED HER BUSINESS IDEA. Not even her husband felt it was going to work. She was all alone in her self-belief.

Yet she grew Mrs. Fields' Original Cookies Inc. to a global brand. As at the year 2000, her company was considered America's leading retailer and franchisor of "baked on premises" products. From one little store in Palo Alto, California, Mrs Debbie Fields grew her cookies company to 1,553 stores scattered in nothing less than nine countries of the world, and grosses over $300 million annually. Debbie's watchword is, "Good enough never is!"

And she was selling just cookies!

Need I say it again for the umpteenth time?

"A dream does not need the approval of the crowd to earn its legitimacy or potential for success. One genuine passionate believer is enough" — Chizi Daniels.

If you are crazy enough to dream it, be passionate enough to dare it. The only person needed to make it happen is you. Once your self-belief is rock-solid and unwavering, you are good to go. Others can join later!

But, do you believe?